FACT! Real men don’t marry ladies they meet on social media – Police officer argues

In a controversial statement that has caused a stir on social media, the PPRO of the Katsina State Police Command (Nigeria), CSP Isah Gambo, has argued that real men don’t marry ladies they meet on social media.

The spokesperson made this assertion on his official Twitter handle in response to a young woman seeking a husband online.

The statement has sparked a debate on social media, with many Nigerians expressing their disagreement with the police officer’s views. Some have accused him of being misogynistic and outdated in his thinking, while others have defended his statement as being based on traditional Nigerian values.

In Nigeria, traditional values often dictate that a woman’s family should play a key role in the process of choosing a life partner. Many people still believe that a woman should be courted by a man who approaches her family for permission to marry her. This view has been challenged in recent years, as more Nigerians have turned to social media and online dating platforms to find love.

The PPRO’s statement seems to be rooted in these traditional values, as he warns the young woman against putting herself out there on social media. He advises her to reconsider her decision and suggests that real men don’t choose their spouses online.

While his statement may seem outdated to some, it is worth noting that social media has been linked to a rise in romance scams and other forms of online fraud. It is also true that online relationships can be difficult to sustain, as they lack the physical and emotional intimacy of in-person interactions.

However, many Nigerians have pointed out that the PPRO’s statement reinforces harmful stereotypes about women and perpetuates the idea that they should be passive in the process of choosing a life partner. Some have also noted that his views may discourage young people from using social media and other online platforms to connect with others.

It remains to be seen whether the PPRO’s statement will spark a wider debate about the role of social media in modern romance. However, it is clear that his views have struck a chord with many Nigerians, who are grappling with the challenges and opportunities presented by the digital age.